Let me start by sharing my situation. I'm 38 years old and work in sales, which comes with a lot of daily stress. Over the past year, I've clearly noticed that my stamina has dropped—sometimes it's over in just two or three minutes. My wife doesn't say anything outright, but I know she's not fully satisfied. After reading many posts online, I finally chose JOKER men's lasting spray, mainly because it works quickly and is said to contain plant-based ingredients, so I figured it would be gentler.

I bought the 10ml version with a spray nozzle, which is fairly convenient to use. The first time I used it was at night after a shower. Following the instructions, I sprayed two pumps on the glans and coronal sulcus about 20 minutes beforehand and spread it evenly with my hand. Right after spraying, there was a slight cooling sensation, but it faded within a minute or two. After waiting about 25 minutes, when my wife came over, I could already feel a mild numbness—not intense, but noticeable.

That session lasted about 20-plus minutes, much longer than usual, and my wife was quite pleased. To be honest, though, in the first few minutes, I felt a bit dulled—like the pleasure was somewhat reduced—but it improved as I gradually got used to it.

I've tried it a few more times since then. Here's my summary:

Onset time: Effects start to kick in about 15-25 minutes after spraying, and whether you've eaten doesn't matter much—that's more convenient than oral products.

Duration extension: It extends things by roughly 15-30 minutes, depending on the individual. My wife said I seemed more enduring, but I know it's mainly the effect of the product.

Numbness: It was more noticeable the first two times, but by the third use, it was much better—probably because I got used to it. However, if you spray too much or hit the urethral opening, the numbness becomes intense. The first time, I accidentally got a bit on there, and that feeling was really unpleasant.

Now for the downsides:

First, the dosage is hard to control. I've tried one pump versus two, and the difference is significant. One pump barely does anything, while two pumps leave me a bit numb. Maybe my skin is sensitive, but I've settled on one and a half pumps—spray once, then lightly add half a pump—and that's just right.

Second, the duration isn't very long, around 1-2 hours. If foreplay drags on or you're aiming for a second round, you might need to reapply. But reapplying means waiting another 20 minutes, which is a bit awkward.

Third, the smell is a bit odd. It has a faint herbal scent when sprayed, not strong, but noticeable up close. Once, my wife said she could smell it, and I had to pass it off as body wash.

As for safety, I looked into the ingredients—mainly plant extracts like Cnidium, clove, and cinnamon bark—without the harshness of chemical anesthetics. I haven't experienced any redness, swelling, or allergies, but if your skin is sensitive, I'd suggest testing it on the inside of your arm first.

Comparing it to other products I've used:

I previously tried a certain Indian oil, which kicked in fast but caused intense numbness and had a strong smell that my wife disliked. JOKER is comparatively gentler and has a milder scent.

I also used a German Black King product. That one caused almost no numbness after spraying, but its duration-extending effect seemed weaker than JOKER's, adding only about 10-plus minutes.

Price-wise, JOKER costs around a hundred-plus yuan per bottle and lasts for 20-30 uses, working out to a few yuan per session—decent value for money.

Finally, who is it suitable for?

If you want to perform better occasionally—like on anniversaries or when you're back from a business trip—JOKER is worth keeping on hand. Use it 20 minutes ahead, and it'll help you last longer.

If you're looking to fundamentally address premature ejaculation, topical delay agents only treat the symptoms. I'd recommend seeing a doctor or trying some oral conditioning products instead.

If you have sensitive skin or want a completely natural feel, you might need to go with a gentler option, like German EROS 101, which my friend says has almost no sensation at all.

Anyway, I think these products are for emergency use—don't expect them to work miracles. Keep a level head and exercise more; that's the real solution.

Oh, and if it's your first time, start with just one spray—don't overdo it. I sprayed too much at first and ended up numb for half an hour, which wasn't a great experience.

If you've tried it too, feel free to share your thoughts.